I’m back home now and happy to be here. It was wonderful spending time with family over the weekend, but the added bonus was an increased appreciation of my own home.
Too much of my visit was uphill. We still
do have stairs in our life here in condo-land, but that’s where the second
bedroom and the less-used loft area are. The majority of my day is spent at one
level, so the shift to climbing my daughter’s stairs to my belongings was an
awakening. Reading glasses? Whoops – upstairs. Sneakers for a walk with the
dog? Ditto.
In contrast, a fun reminder of my past life were the interruptions by some of the residents to whatever I was doing.
I had help with my i-Pad,
help with my reading, and help from the family’s marshmallow-like 16-pound second cat, Marvin, who was always eager to jump in my lap and decorate whatever I was wearing with a liberal dose of fur.
After seven cats and one
dog, I do miss all of that.
On Sunday, we returned to the welcome
familiarity of routine. Grocery store, a stroll around the complex, golf. Today
was book club at the library – The Last Lecture by Randy Pausch. I dragged my
feet, but finally read it. It’s a quick read, full of life lessons, but too
soon (and too long) our group veered off from the book and devolved into
personal stories, as I guess a book like that will invite.
Afterwards, I stayed to tidy up my
three assigned bushes as a Friend of the Library
volunteer. My job is to
dead-head the white butterfly bushes in the library’s new garden, but I clipped
a few spent blossoms on the purple ones, too, and went home feeling virtuous.
Uphilledness (and if that isn't a word it should be) has become surprisingly challenging here. Welcome home.
ReplyDeleteFunny how that increases with the years
ReplyDeleteNice you have returned intact. That is a large number of pet cats!
ReplyDeleteNot that many cats when you figure it encompasses 50 years of marriage, and we always had two cats at a time.
DeleteI can still do stairs though a little slower going up and a bit more careful going down. The butterfly bushes are buddleias, my daughter has one left of the original three and it towers up past the gutters on her house.Trimming is only possible on the lower branches now.
ReplyDeleteOut butterfly bushes are long spent. Maybe that's because I didn't deadhead them! I love that picture of the dog.
ReplyDeleteThat's my daughter's 95-pound Golden named Bowie (after you-know-who)
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