Saturday, July 5, 2025

Flowery Fourth

 




The two of us spent the Fourth at our son’s in Providence, R.I.

Our youngest (although now that he’s fifty that sounds a bit odd.) owns a house that sits pretty much in the center of the city. 

Over the years, he’s renovated the carriage house in back and recently also purchased the house next door. His long-range plan is for an income-producer for each twin.  It’s been a long road full of many, many, many renovations, most of which he’s done with his own two hands. I try not to learn some of the details, like when he was up on the roof of the three-family house repairing the roof tiles.


Just the transformation of the carriage house – which initially needed guy wires affixed to the ground to prevent it from falling down – into the home where he and his family now live is worthy of a lengthy post in the future.



Once he acquired the three-family next door he was able to use its back yard to indulge his love of gardening, and a person could spend a good fifteen minutes out there just naming all the plants he’s put in over the past year. Yesterday, we enjoyed the result of this, sitting on a patio he’d installed, gazing out over the new grass to the laurels in back, and wolfing down the brisket he’d smoked.



It was a day of small children running through the sprinkler, smaller cousins trailing after larger cousins, and catching up with relatives on our DIL’s side of the family. We are truly fortunate that all new additions to the family tree have been wonderful ones.

Although sometimes we all need a little time to ourselves.  Case in point, grandtwin Lola here in the hammock cocooning with her books.



Friday, July 4, 2025

Independence

 

          Independence is a wonderful thing in its many forms.

Monday, June 30, 2025

There's no place like home

 


In a reversal of the ‘no room at the inn’ motif, My Guy and I booked ourselves into a hotel for the family weekend gathering in New Jersey (which was fabulous, by the way).

Sunday, June 29, 2025

Making the moves

 


Tylenol for arthritis – check

CBD cream on my knee – check

A few limbering exercises before I leave – check

 

And I was off to try Tai Chi.

I’m ready to try anything since the Big A has muscled its way into my world this year, bringing all its luggage and showing no inclination to leave.

Friday, June 27, 2025

A History of Heat

 

The heat has finally broken. Not that I’ve been suffering unduly, living as I now do in the blessed world of air conditioning. My Guy and I are endlessly fascinated by recounting to each other all those years we lived without it, and not just in our childhoods. Our first house – a 1920s Dutch colonial – sat under massive oaks in a city lot. They helped a little, I suppose (except for the carpenter ants that fell from them onto our roof), but in the summer I often used to wish the entire back of the house could be hinged up like a dollhouse.

Thursday, June 26, 2025

Heat and upcoming travels

 

The heat got the neighbor's "fried egg" 
tree off to an early start. 

Tuesday was predicted to be the start of mind-searing heat – 100 degrees - and what did I do? I hopped in my car and went off to play golf. Not the smartest thing in the world, but we were out there at 8:30 and rode around in carts.

Monday, June 23, 2025

From hot dogs to toilet plungers

 


         In the interest of continuing to grab the goodness of a Massachusetts summer before the tropical heat had fully gotten its shoes under the bed, we took off for another late lunch.