Thank you, pandemic, for at
least bringing us Zoom. Our four-way visit was a roaring success, but the whole time
I kept thinking how different we are from each other.
Chris
is a full professor with tenure at a small college and lives in Maryland. Her
face is seen on any street in Ireland, and she has the dark hair and eyes of
her black Irish forbears, thought to be offshoots of long-ago raids by the Spanish
Armada. Her doctorate is a long way from her father’s career at the Post
Office, and her embrace of the Jewish faith upon her marriage is even farther
from her strict Catholic upbringing. Even in high school Chris pursued
knowledge with the hunger of a junkie.
Andrea
finished up the farthest away, in Maui, where she lives on a compound with her
sister, husband, and other family members. Her career had been in television, in the
middle of the country. We were dumbfounded when she married a man twenty-six
years her senior, but happily, he’s still going strong at 96. Her father worked
for the State Department, and her mother was perpetually involved in one
worthwhile cause after another. Andrea is our flower child, but with a knack
for the practical, and she exuded a Mother Earth kind of warmth even in high
school.
Sheila
is a glass artist in West Virginia. A stained-glass wall of her making graces
the Rockport Public Library in Massachusetts, and years ago one of her
ornaments helped to decorate the White House Christmas tree. I lived with her
family for a half of my junior year to simplify college applications while my
parents were in London. Her father was retired military, with a perpetual
twinkle in his blue Irish eye. Sheila
married twice, but now lives alone with her small dog and occasional cats in her little
house cluttered with art. She, like her two sisters, had been an artist as long
as I’ve known her.
It
fascinates me how we all began in the same high school, zipping around
Arlington, Virginia in Sheila’s old orange Renault, sharing the same hopes and angst,
with no idea of what life would bring us.
What an amazing catch-up. I don't know where any of the people I went to school with are...
ReplyDeleteAnd will have to explore zoom further. Soon.
I downloaded Zoom so I can take my yoga classes I paid for a month or so ago. I still don't know how to have a group "talk," but maybe I can figure it out with a little help from the internet. :-)
ReplyDeleteFortunately, our professor is using it daily, so she orchestrated the whole thing.
Deletenice that you've kept up. I graduated high school, walked away and never looked back. didn't keep up with a single person.
ReplyDeleteKinda sorta kept up. We go years and years without any contact, and then gather for a visit. And then go years and years more.
DeleteWhat a wonderful connection. My high school friends have left.
ReplyDeleteNone of us live where we went to school anymore.
DeleteI haven't kept in touch with a single soul from my school days, wouldn't have a clue where they are or what they're up to now. I didn't have close friends back then and not many now either. I'm more a loner type.
ReplyDeleteWhenever we're in touch (VERY infrequently), I'm reminded how much I like them and wish they lived near me.
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