Monday, June 30, 2025

There's no place like home

 


In a reversal of the ‘no room at the inn’ motif, My Guy and I booked ourselves into a hotel for the family weekend gathering in New Jersey (which was fabulous, by the way). We usually do anyway when visiting daughter and family, not being big fans of fold-out couches. Plus, since my kind daughter was already finding beds for our son, his wife, twin daughters, and girlfriend of grandson #2, they were pretty much full up.

          We chose a hotel not far away where we’ve stayed before, at a high-end chain that would have been unthinkable in our Motel 6 youth.

          The lobby was so stripped down I wondered at first if they were in the process of renovation. But, no, the room was the same – not even towel racks in the bathroom.

          And I’m now resigned to the disappearance of the good old days with offerings of shower caps and lotion in the bathrooms, and sometimes even tiny sewing kits. Now we’re down to one small bar of soap and squirt bottles in the shower for bath gel, shampoo, and conditioner. (And it’s wise to put on your glasses beforehand to determine which is which.)

          The shower itself looked promising until I realized that the valve transferring water from the tub faucet up to the shower head was stuck halfway, creating a flood at my feet and a so-so trickle from above.

          My Guy’s first midnight run inserted a storyline of a tortured dog into my dreams until I realized that the bathroom door’s hinges were the cause, sounding like the beginning of Tales from the Crypt.

          To the hotel’s credit, they sent me a chirpy text asking if we’d settled in and were happy. I’ve never complained about a room before, but this time I thought, “Why not?” and explained the issues. When we returned Saturday evening, no squeak and no leaking valve. Yay.

          


Except, short of bringing in some drywall, nothing could be done about the
connecting metal door to the neighboring room. 

At 10:00 pm, lying in bed, I could hear almost word for word the conversation of the couple behind the door.

Sunday, June 29, 2025

Making the moves

 


Tylenol for arthritis – check

CBD cream on my knee – check

A few limbering exercises before I leave – check

 

And I was off to try Tai Chi.

I’m ready to try anything since the Big A has muscled its way into my world this year, bringing all its luggage and showing no inclination to leave.

Friday, June 27, 2025

A History of Heat

 

The heat has finally broken. Not that I’ve been suffering unduly, living as I now do in the blessed world of air conditioning. My Guy and I are endlessly fascinated by recounting to each other all those years we lived without it, and not just in our childhoods. Our first house – a 1920s Dutch colonial – sat under massive oaks in a city lot. They helped a little, I suppose (except for the carpenter ants that fell from them onto our roof), but in the summer I often used to wish the entire back of the house could be hinged up like a dollhouse.

Thursday, June 26, 2025

Heat and upcoming travels

 

The heat got the neighbor's "fried egg" 
tree off to an early start. 

Tuesday was predicted to be the start of mind-searing heat – 100 degrees - and what did I do? I hopped in my car and went off to play golf. Not the smartest thing in the world, but we were out there at 8:30 and rode around in carts.

Monday, June 23, 2025

From hot dogs to toilet plungers

 


         In the interest of continuing to grab the goodness of a Massachusetts summer before the tropical heat had fully gotten its shoes under the bed, we took off for another late lunch.

Saturday, June 21, 2025

The Great Outdoors

 

Yesterday was a day to be outside, a day of mid-70s temps and downright dramatic winds. When you put aside the knowledge that those winds were blowing in a sledgehammer heat wave, you could really enjoy it.

Wednesday, June 18, 2025

Random observations/discoveries

 

Thank heaven I’m a relatively tidy person. Maybe not a dust-the-vents-every-week kind of cleaner, but the bed is always made, towels always hung up.